Stress and anxiety don’t show up the same way for everyone.
For some people, it feels like constant mental chatter—a racing mind that won’t slow down. For others, stress settles into the body as tension, digestive upset, shallow breathing, or an overwhelmed nervous system.
That’s why one of the first questions we ask customers looking for support is:
Is your stress showing up in your mind, your body, or both?
The answer can help guide you toward the herbs and wellness tools that may offer the most support.
When Stress Lives in the Mind
Mental stress often looks like:
- Racing thoughts
- Worrying about the future
- Rehashing the past
- Difficulty focusing
- Feeling overwhelmed
- A short temper or little patience
- Trouble falling asleep because your brain won’t turn off
When stress shows up this way, we often turn to herbs that help quiet mental activity and promote a sense of calm.
Passionflower
A favorite for calming an overactive mind and supporting restful sleep.
Skullcap
A deeply nourishing nervine that helps ease mental tension and nervous exhaustion.
Valerian Root
Traditionally used to relax the mind and body, especially when stress interferes with sleep.
Lemon Balm
One of our favorite herbs for both anxiety and stress. It gently lifts the mood while calming nervous tension.
For those looking for additional support, we love:
• Happiness Tonic by Anima Mundi
• Be Happy Herbal Extract Blend
When Stress Lives in the Body
Sometimes anxiety is less about thoughts and more about what you’re feeling physically.
Stress may show up as:
- Tightness in the chest
- A lump in the throat
- Tension in the neck and jaw
- Feeling unable to take a deep breath
- Digestive discomfort
- Nervous stomach
- Feeling “wired” even when you’re tired
In these situations, we often look to herbs that nourish and regulate the nervous system.
Lemon Balm
Particularly helpful when stress affects digestion and gut health.
Chamomile
A gentle nervine that supports both relaxation and digestive comfort.
Passionflower
Helps calm the nervous system and ease feelings of overwhelm.
Holy Basil (Tulsi)
An adaptogenic herb that supports emotional balance while calming the nervous system.
Some of our favorite formulas for nervous system support include:
• No More Anxiety Herbal Extract Blend
• Roots Botanicals Anxiety Tincture
When Stress Becomes Chronic
Sometimes the challenge isn’t simply calming down—it’s recovering from months or years of ongoing stress.
This is where adaptogens can be incredibly supportive.
Adaptogens help the body adapt to physical, emotional, and mental stress while promoting resilience and balance.
Ashwagandha
One of the most well-known adaptogens for supporting a healthy cortisol response, adrenal balance, and overall calm.
Rhodiola
Supports mental clarity, physical endurance, and resilience during stressful periods. Particularly helpful when stress leaves you feeling depleted or burned out.
Holy Basil (Tulsi)
Offers both calming and adaptogenic benefits, making it a wonderful everyday ally.
Our favorite adaptogenic formulas include:
• Ashwagandha Tincture by Roots Apothecary
• Ultimate Rhodiola Tincture by Kaya Holistic
• Adaptogenic Tonic by Anima Mundi
What About CBD, CBG & CBN?
Many of our customers find that herbs and cannabinoids work beautifully together.
While herbs like Lemon Balm, Passionflower, Skullcap, and Ashwagandha support the nervous system directly, cannabinoids work through the body’s endocannabinoid system—a network that helps regulate mood, stress response, sleep, and overall balance.
One of our favorite daytime options is:
• CBG Focus & Relief Drops by Kaya Hemp Co.
For a deeper dive into how CBD, CBG, and CBN support stress, anxiety, and sleep, be sure to read our companion article on cannabinoids and the endocannabinoid system.
Finding Your Path Back to Calm
There is no single herb—or single solution—for stress and anxiety.
The key is understanding how stress is showing up for you.
Is it mental chatter?
An overwhelmed nervous system?
Chronic stress and burnout?
Or a combination of all three?
Nature offers an incredible variety of plant allies to support each of these experiences. Whether it’s Lemon Balm for a nervous stomach, Passionflower for racing thoughts, Ashwagandha for chronic stress, or CBG for calm focus, small daily rituals can help bring the body and mind back into balance.
At Kaya Holistic, we’re here to help you find the herbal support that meets you where you are and gently guides you back to center.

